Invest in your relationship.
Track positive and negative interactions in your partnership -- based on 40 years of Gottman research and the magic 5:1 ratio.
Everything your relationship needs
Science-backed tools for a happier partnership
Deposits & Withdrawals
Log positive moments (deposits) and conflicts (withdrawals) with a single tap. Every interaction builds your relationship account -- or drains it.
The 5:1 Ratio
See at a glance whether your ratio of positive to negative interactions is in the healthy range. The magic 5:1 is your goal.
Partner Connection
Connect with your partner via QR code and share a joint relationship account. Both can log deposits and withdrawals.
Gratitude Messages
Send your partner loving messages directly through the app. Small gestures of appreciation that make all the difference.
Deposit Streaks
Build daily streaks of positive interactions. Streaks motivate you to actively invest in your relationship every day.
Wish List
Share wishes and ideas with your partner – from small gestures to shared experiences. So you always know how to make each other happy.
Cross-relationship insights
Spot patterns across different areas of your relationship. Compare trends and discover how various interactions affect your shared account.
Get started in 3 steps
It couldn't be simpler
Connect
Download the app and connect with your partner via QR code.
Track
Log your positive and negative interactions daily with a single tap.
Grow
Watch your 5:1 ratio grow and your relationship become stronger.
The Science Behind It
The magic ratio
Dr. John Gottman has been researching what makes relationships successful for over 40 years. His groundbreaking insight: Happy couples have at least 5 positive interactions for every negative one.
“The ratio of positive to negative interactions is the strongest predictor of relationship success.”
Prediction accuracy
Years of research
Couples studied
Your Companion in Couples Therapy
Studies show: 62% of couples benefit more from therapy when they actively work on their relationship between sessions. Beziehungskonto bridges this gap.
Why Couples Therapy Alone Isn't Enough
Couples therapy sessions typically happen every 1–2 weeks. But the real work happens in daily life between sessions. Many couples fall back into old patterns because they lack concrete tools. Beziehungskonto is built on the same scientific principles used in couples therapy – and makes them actionable in everyday life.
Emotional Bank Account
Gottman's "Emotional Bank Account" concept is a core principle in couples therapy. Our app makes it measurable: track deposits and withdrawals, and see at a glance how your relationship account stands.
Therapy Homework Made Easy
Therapists often assign exercises between sessions. Daily Challenges and Shared Goals in the app help you follow through on these assignments – without forgetting them.
Practice Appreciation Daily
Gratitude and appreciation are among the most effective exercises in couples therapy. With Gratitude Messages, you can exchange small gestures of appreciation every day.
Make Progress Visible
The 5:1 ratio and detailed statistics show how your interaction patterns change over time. Track your therapy progress with concrete data.
Define Shared Goals
In Gottman therapy, "Shared Meaning" is a cornerstone. With the shared goals feature, you can set relationship goals and work toward them together.
Regular Check-Ins
The Relationship Check-In replicates what therapists do at the start of each session: reflect on the current state of your relationship – now regularly at home.
The ratio of positive to negative interactions in daily life determines the success of couples therapy. Digital tools that support couples between sessions can significantly boost therapy outcomes.
– Based on findings from Gottman Research & EFT Couples Therapy
Success rate in Emotionally Focused Therapy
better outcomes with exercises between sessions
The ratio that connects happy couples
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A look inside your new Beziehungskonto
What our users say
Real stories from couples using Beziehungskonto
“Since using the app, we're so much more aware of the small positive moments in everyday life. Our 5:1 ratio improved significantly in just 3 months!”
Laura & Markus
“The gratitude messages are my absolute favorite feature. My partner lights up every time a message comes in. It brings us so much closer together.”
Sophie
“Finally an app based on real science. The Gottman research convinced us and the app makes it super easy to keep track of the 5:1 ratio.”
Thomas & Julia
“The streaks motivate us every day to consciously do something positive for each other. We've now made deposits for 45 days in a row!”
Anna
“After 15 years of marriage, we thought we knew everything about each other. This app showed us there's still so much to discover. Highly recommended.”
Michael & Petra
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